The weather’s on the turn again, which means even though it’s cold outside, the nights are long, dark and full of naughty ways to help us warm up… 

Here’s our pick of some upcoming fetish and kink events in London, November to December 2017. We’ve also included a few outside of London, because sometimes it’s worth going that extra mile…

19 November

Chardmore Society – Clothed Male – Naked Female
3pm – 8pm, £50 per couple, £25 per single woman, Sutton

This is an exclusive party for couples into “CMnf”. The men are all elegantly dressed in suits, evening wear or smart uniforms. Their women are naked, apart from high heels, stockings, etc. Very skimpy and revealing lingerie is permitted. Women may be on a collar and leash. The dress code is obligatory. No-one is admitted who is not properly dressed.

In the dungeon, they have a cage, a sybian, a handheld f-machine, monkey rocker, orgasm tower, etc. Trusted rope bondage master David E will be on hand to help and advise as required.

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25 November

(c) The Gate Club 2017

The Inner Circle at Demonics Dungeon
9pm – 3am, £20 per couple, Dartford Crossing

The Inner Circle is a new strictly Dom Male/sub female event from The Gate Club team. “Demonic’s Dungeon” spans four floors with two fully equipped dungeons with a Pandora’s box of toys for you to use and try out. That includes a suspension winch (alongside many other items of adult furniture and a good selection of toys), while their top floor play space is a fully-equipped medical wing, complete with examination chair and a glass walled bathroom – which doubles as a wet room for showers, watersports and anything else you can think of!

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25 November

(c) London Alternative Market 2017

London Alternative Market
12pm – 10.30pm, varies, The City

Back once again is everyone’s favourite shopping spot, the London Alternative Market or LAM for short. There will be stalls, stands and every manner of trader supplied with everything for all your kinky needs. Take part in the free prize draw, try some cake, meet like minded kinksters and stay for the afterparty…


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15 December

Club Femdom
10pm – 4am, £30 adv/£35 otd, Lewisham

Femdom lovers take note – this one is for you. The Femdom Club celebrates the supremacy of the Female Dominant. The emphasis will be on style, glamour and high protocol service. ‘Club Femdom’ is back to continue its mission to provide a Femdom club that positively promotes, teaches and supports the Femdom lifestyle. Dress code is fetish or glamour – minimum smart black for the boys (with collar!)

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17 December

Pan People – Afternoon Play Party – Christmas Spank Off
3pm – 8pm, £15 entry, £5 membership, Camden

A new, queer members only play party. If you’re gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, asexual, queer, male, female, transgender, transvestite, cross dresser, two spirit, androgynous, gender fluid, intersex, pangender, non binary, other, a panty wearer or identify as a doughnut, as long as you’re a nice person, you are welcome to come and play with like minded people. Bringing kinky and sexually liberated people together in a social and sex positive environment. Join them for their Christmas Spank Off!

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